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RELATIONSHIP COACHING

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Coaching with Shakira — Your Questions Answered

Each card below introduces a service in a friendly, down-to-earth way. Open the questions to see what it’s like to work together, what you’ll gain, and how to get started.

Relationship Coaching
What is Relationship Coaching?

It’s a supportive space for couples or individuals to reconnect, communicate with kindness, and navigate conflict with confidence. We focus on practical skills you can use right away—no judgement, just steady guidance.

Who is it for?
  • Couples who feel distant or stuck in the same arguments
  • Partners healing after a break of trust
  • Individuals preparing for a healthy relationship or conscious dating
How is this different from therapy?

Therapy explores the past and treats diagnoses. Coaching looks at where you are today and where you want to go, with goals, tools, and accountability each week. I’ll let you know if a therapy referral would be more helpful.

What happens in a session?

We begin with what matters most right now. Expect gentle structure, simple communication tools, and a plan to practise between sessions. Sessions are available online or in-person.

How much does it cost?

R400 for a 60-minute session.

How many sessions will I need?

Most couples notice positive shifts within 4–8 sessions. You can book single sessions or choose a focused package.

What changes can we expect?
  • Clearer, calmer conversations
  • Repair after conflict and stronger trust
  • Healthier boundaries and a shared vision for the relationship
Can I come alone?

Absolutely. Improving your side of the pattern can transform the whole relationship.

Is it confidential and inclusive?

Yes. Sessions are confidential, trauma-informed, and welcoming to all identities and relationship styles.

Intimacy Coaching
What is Intimacy Coaching?

A gentle, guided way to feel close again—first to yourself, and then with a partner. We work with the body and nervous system so intimacy feels safe and natural.

Who would benefit?

Anyone experiencing low desire, anxiety around closeness, body-image worries, or difficulty expressing needs and boundaries.

What happens in sessions?

Soothing breath and grounding tools, values-based conversations, and kind, practical scripts for asking for what you need. No nudity or sexual activity takes place in sessions.

How is it different from therapy?

We focus on skills and small steps forward. If trauma care or medical support is needed, I’ll refer you to the right professional.

Pricing & format

R400 per 60-minute session. Online or in-person.

What might change for me?
  • More ease and confidence in your body
  • Clearer boundaries and safer connection
  • Better ways to talk about closeness and desire
Sex Coaching
What is Sex Coaching?

Respectful, down-to-earth support for topics like desire differences, performance anxiety, and pleasure education—always within your boundaries.

Do I need to bring my partner?

Come alone or together—both are effective, and we’ll choose what suits you best.

What happens in a session?

Clear language, consent-focused communication scripts, mindset tools, and simple home practices. Sessions are talk-based; there is no explicit activity.

Is it inclusive and confidential?

Yes. All orientations, genders, and relationship styles are welcome. Your privacy matters.

Pricing & timeline

R400 per 60-minute session. Many clients notice progress within 4–6 sessions.

Alternative Lifestyle Coaching
What does this include?

Ethical non-monogamy, swinging, polyamory, kink and other consensual, values-aligned ways of relating.

Why work with a coach?

To explore safely and ethically, communicate clearly, and create grounded agreements. We’ll normalise common challenges and plan for care before and after experiences.

What happens in sessions?
  • Values mapping and boundary setting
  • Jealousy resilience and nervous-system care
  • Clear, kind scripts for difficult conversations
Pricing

R400 per 60-minute session. Online or in-person.

Body Confidence Coaching
What is Body Confidence Coaching?

A kind, practical approach to feeling at home in your body—no harsh rules, no shame. We focus on respect, safety and small, doable steps.

Who is it for?

Anyone navigating body shame, comparison, post-partum or ageing changes, or the fear of being seen and touched.

What happens in sessions?
  • Gentle mindset and self-talk practices
  • Somatic grounding for “wobbly” moments
  • Boundary scripts and body-respect routines
What might change for me?

Less anxiety and self-criticism, more ease with intimacy and everyday life—and a toolkit you can trust.

Pricing & timeline

R400 per 60-minute session. Many clients feel steady improvement within 4–8 sessions.

Is it inclusive?

Yes—weight-neutral, trauma-aware and welcoming of all bodies and abilities. I’ll refer you if medical care is needed.

Personal Confidence Coaching
What is Personal Confidence Coaching?

A friendly, structured process to strengthen self-belief and find your voice so you can set boundaries and take action that feels true to you.

Who is it for?

If you struggle with self-doubt, people-pleasing, fear of judgement or decision fatigue, this is for you.

What happens in sessions?
  • Confidence and values mapping
  • Gentle assertiveness and boundary practice
  • Small weekly actions with compassionate accountability
What results are common?

A clearer voice, stronger boundaries, and follow-through you can rely on—even in high-stakes moments.

Pricing & recommended sessions

R400 per 60-minute session. Many goals fit well into 4–6 sessions, with optional ongoing support.

Is it confidential and respectful?

Yes—private, culturally sensitive and LGBTQIA+ inclusive. I’ll refer to clinical support if needed.

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